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On a Lighter Note: The Other Kind of Self-Care

4/30/2020

 
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I'm a lipstick girl.  I grew up with grandmothers who'd NEVER be caught outside of the house "without a mouth."  My paternal grandmother wouldn't even be caught inside the house without hers, and she had tubes of lipstick stashed all over her little house in Norfolk, Virginia.  My father told me that after she passed away, they found lipsticks hidden all around her room and in her bed.  I miss those women so much.  My mother is also a lipstick girl.  She has a big, gorgeous smile and even though her coloring is wildly different from mine, we discovered some years ago that we both loved a shade called Wine With Everything.  

Well, there hasn't been much use for lipstick in quarantine.  And whenever I put it on, I feel sort of garish, and the kids ask me where I'm going.  But that doesn't mean I've let up on my other self-care routines.  And of course, in this particular discussion of self-care, I'm not talking meditation and exercise and all the things that I really hammer y'all about.  I'm talking, looking good at FIFTY self-care!

So here are a few of my non-negotiables. 

​1. Washing my face EVERY SINGLE NIGHT, no matter how tired I am.  I use the plainest soap I can find.  Good ol' bar soap works best for me, because I had oily skin until a few years ago, and I'm still prone to break-outs.  Ah, menopause ... wrinkles and pimples! Yay!  Sometimes I exfoliate with a gentle scrub.  But I always follow with a mixture of retinol and vitamin C serum, all over my face and neck.  It has made a huge difference, I wish I had started in my 30s.  I have a lot of sun damage to my face.  Again,  retrospect.  Kurt Vonnegut was right, kids, when he (actually never) said wear sunscreen.

2. Religiously flossing.  Teeth, breath and heart health, guys ~ the inflammation in your mouth can contribute to heart disease.   I'm not even kidding.  So as gross as it sounds, I use a tongue scraper, and natural dental floss so I don't end up with PFOAs in my system (again, wishing I had figured that out before spending decades using Teflon pans).  And I gargle with good old-fashioned eye-watering antiseptic mouthwash, because my dentist recommended it for preventing those yucky bacteria that can lodge in your tonsils.  If your breath is routinely bad (or your mouth tastes yucky), think about (a) drinking more water and (b) cleaning your tongue and flossing.

3. Epsom salt baths. I love them ~ for sore muscles and because magnesium, both ingested and as a soak, has so many health benefits.

4. Tinted moisturizer and sunscreen every day.  My other make-up choices are pretty optional.  I'm addicted to the Nars Multiple stick, so I'll never give that up, but otherwise I look for makeup that's pretty clean by the Environmental Working Group Skin Deep app standards.  I recently discovered Beautycounter, which was started by a friend of a friend, and I'm really impressed by the quality of the products and the company's values.

5. I upped my glasses game recently, because I'm in front of this computer so often with work, Zoom meetings and client sessions.  I wear Caddis readers, again recommeneded by a friend, because they look so cool and filter out the blue light, so I have less eye fatigue.  Although, with my little Chinese face and pointy chin, I look a little bit like that nerdy bird that follows Foghorn Leghorn around.  Oh well. 

6. Finally, Native deodorant, y'all!  A gift from a friend and I LOVE it.  Don't be putting nasty chemicals and toxins on your armpits, ladies, they're right next to your breasts!

So those are my go-to routines and products, and my point here is, keep doing these little things that make you feel good every day.  Even if the only people who see you are the ones whining, "Mom, there's nothing in the house to eat."  
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Embrace Your Beautiful Life TODAY

4/7/2020

 
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I have deliberately avoided writing about the COVID-19 crisis.  We are all at home,  hoping and praying that the precautions we are taking now will slow the spread of the virus.  Our inboxes are full of devastating news, helpful hints and encouragement in the face of social distancing, economic uncertainty and quarantine.  I will not presume to provide the same.  Instead, I will say, do not wait another second to pursue the life you want.  In all its authenticity, messiness and beauty.  Every moment is only NOW.  Do not wait until you've earned more money, found a partner, left a relationship, finished treatment, lost weight, changed jobs.  Do it TODAY, not "when . . ."  One of my core beliefs is: A BEAUTIFUL LIFE IS YOUR BIRTHRIGHT.  Claim it.  RIGHT NOW.
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